anonymusings….

ya’ know….sometimes, i wish that i could go back to 2004/2005 - where i didn’t know you guys in real life. so many of you are interfused with my reality (we’ve hung out… *cough* dated…have become e-mail/im/facebook buddies) that it’s hard to keep some things private. because of that, i try to maintain a balance of keeping some things private, while keeping those of you who truly care about me outside of the blog world updated on what’s going on w/ me - not just for myself, but for the people in my immediate environment that deserve their privacy.

but let me tell you…i’ve been going thru some things lately…the last couple of week have been absolutely WICKED. maybe, i’ll share the details when it’s long past and i see the value in the lesson…maybe not. in the meantime…let me try to show you….

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Here’s today’s post from my other site –> “He Is Here” . Too lazy to come up with two today. Enjoy!

y’all seen these billboards? i’m sure if you live in the south you have. i remember the first time i saw one was when i was driving in florida, on my way to miami. at first i stopped and thought, “dang. God done hired a pr firm…”. (more…)

now that i’m grown ass woman…yes, i know that i said in an earlier post that being a grown ass woman means that you don’t have to tell people you’re a grown ass woman, but stay with me here…now that i’m a grown ass woman… (more…)

so what do you think? ladies? men? are you experiencing the exact love life that you want? is your current partner…or lack thereof…what you’ve always envisioned for yourself? is it your fault? are you creating the life that you want for yourself…right here….right now? and do you have the power to change it…whenevever/wherever you choose?

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i don’t believe in coincidences. in fact, i’m usually the first person to recognize that my steps have always been “ordered”, but after reading an entry about “destiny”, i’m taking time now to reflect upon the “reasons”, “seasons” and “lifetimes” that i’ve encountered during my journey. as i sit here and think, i am awestruck. every.single.person in my life has served a purpose, no matter how small. i can pinpoint various lessons that i’ve learned over the years from both my triumphs and tragedies. i give thanks for it all. my reasons, those that although they may no longer be with me, have helped me discover parts of my character (good and bad) that may have otherwise gone unnoticed…my seasons, those that had a major impact on me for the brief time that they were intertwined in my life…my lifetimes, those people that i could not bear to live without…those people whom, although i may not communicate with everyday, i carry with me in my heart…always. thank you all.